Harvey,

So your here....

But my concern is really not your W..
Your girls emotional state. I should know I have almost triplets
Kids say am ok ... they are not
We love it here... we hate it..

Please please get your girls.. WAW or MLC seem to put themselves first.
I know you going to say. My W loves our girls my W puts them first

Honestly any W/H that checks out starts to get a habit. Example smoking yelp my W hated cigarettes guess what W smokes now..alot

And oh let's not start with they love to party like a teenagers drinking and all..

Not trying to scare you but just imagine if W died what would you done with the girls and you. Would you giving girls up or step it up.

This forum has saved me mentally but many forget when kids are involved we can't GAL we can GALWK with kids. I now do so much with my kids I never thought I worked so much I miss all the first time, I promise them no more I am not missing out on the most important time of their life. Our kids are starting to become little people finding themselves.

Harvey please get your girls back. I would contact a lawyer ti send W an email stating you didn't expect her to stay but you can't stop her but you want girls back with you.


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9