regardless, if you choose to reply to above post Ginger, Great. If not. Also nbd.
As i said earlier. I am done wasting bandwidth debating with people here. I will post as i post. I never forced anyone to comment on my thread. I have been told before "if you disagree with someones advice, you dont need to call them out on it, just quietly disagree and move on" the same could be said for all the folks who comment on all my wrongdoing. I have readily admitted when i was wrong several times, about several topics.
People all claim the "people posting care, and want to help" I believe that to be 80% true. I feel as though some people want to be right more than they want to help. That is the last time I will touch on the idiosyncrasies of the board and how i am treated here in comparison to other posters. I am done debating with people. Lastly, i had posted last week and earlier this week about Non-EXW stuff, videos i was researching and other stuff. **CRICKETS** ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Ok, that being said.
I had a long chat with SIL last night about some of my defense mechanisms, some of which are not productive or healthy. I am going to discuss that with IC next week. As my asking about EXW is now always met with anger and frustration, i will ignore the advice i have received here previously to post whenever i am feeling lost in how to communicate with her, bounce ideas off you all, and get advice on how to communicate with her. I will only post about my personal development, as asking about my divorcing wife on a divorce forum has been deemed taboo. In fact, as my opinion on my EXW have basically been viewed by all of you to be wrong, i wont even ask about her anymore. I feel as thought this greatly defeats the purpose of posting here to begin with, but Ill join the herd and do as i have been told.
if anyone has legitimate questions, ill answer them. If anyone has advice, ill hear it.
I plan on having a Turkey Club for lunch. I plan on taking S3 to an amusement park after work. I plan on going to bed around midnight. weather looks nice, ill find some outdoor activities to do with S3 this weekend. i need to rotate my tires and do my rear brakes. boring, that always [censored]. my coffee was on point this morning. S3's haircut looks nice. Its Friday. Chilly out compared to recent weather, fall is coming. Need some new shoes, and to get my car inspected. Watched an interesting documentary on Antiquity Architecture the other day. Neat stuff.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds