Originally Posted by Ginger1 Really, go back to your regularly scheduled program. I am pretty sick of this cycle myself. [/quote
So why is it that I get pounced on for every snippet of Passive Aggressiveness, but you seem to be celebrated for it? Seems awfully hypocritical.
[quote=Ginger1]Why O? Because anytime someone tells you are doing something detrimental to yourself, you jump on them, get defensive and then insult them. We help, you take it as pissing. You hear something you don't wan tot hear, but really, is truth, and observed by everyone on the board. You feel pissed on. You ask how to get rid of the headspace, we point out where you are giving it to much and how to HELP you relieve that, you feel pissed on.
Thats because everyone's answer is the same "Get out and GAL! its all you can do!!" And i have explained serveral times, that as much as i GAL, she still gets in the headspace.
I explain myself and people just repeat the same advice, over and over again.
Cite example of me jumping on people when they give me advice. I dont see it. Cite example of me insulting someone. I dont believe i have.
So if GAL doesnt work to get her out of headspace, what is your next recommendation?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
