"I honesty don't see the point in asking people to help and then ignore them."

What advice do you think I ignore?

I don't do any pursuit, I stay calm, I eat healthier, exercise, new clothes, new hair, look a lot better, I've stood up for myself to get childcare access, currently have them living back with me and we are going out a lot, plus I'm taking legal action to try to get a good childcare plan in place, I see a Dr, have counselling, doing some work and hobbies again, and I'm trying to start my own social life that doesn't involve mutual friends of W and I.