Ummmm, OK. You are getting hung up on every communication. Look back through all your threads. You post every communication then have this whole dialogue about it. Even a few words about a lunchbox. We have gone through this a million times. She doesn't communicate, you read into it. She communicated nastily, you read into it, she communicates nice, you read into, she communicates about something you feel she doesn't need to, you read into it.
Who cares if she is hovering?
None of this makes any difference. You need to stop giving anything and everything she says or doesn't say this much headspace or attention.
^^^THIS, THIS, A THOUSAND TIMES THIS!!!!!^^^ Orange, DETACH. Stop all the analyzing and armchair psychological examination. Get about the business of building a new life for Orange. Leave her to her mess.
