it's not that you just post it, you analyze a simple exchange to bits and pieces. This particular divorce forum is geared towards NOT analyzing every little word your spouse says to you and the meaning behind it. It actually does emphasize more of what you ate for breakfast or what movies you like. What changes you have coming for your future to make it look bright now and post divorce. What so you like to do? What new hobbies are you going to take up? What plans do you have with your son?
You aren't actually posting about your divorce. You are posting about her.
I have posted about this type of stuff often. Hiking, Climbing, working out, game nights, Trips with S3, my camping trip, dating, etc.
I have posted about judges decisions, me moving, looking for new jobs, new apartments etc.
Ginger, i honestly think no matter what i posted about you would find a way to dissect it. Im honestly getting the feeling you enjoy this sense of superiority over me you seem to exhibit. Why is that?
I can't help but laugh. Sense of superiority over you? You are just about impossible to get through to. Very sad you mistake someone who has been where you are at trying to help you get past the things you are struggling with. You say you want her out of your headspace. Then you give her tons of headspace. Then I help you to get her out of your headspace. Then you interpret that as me getting off on some superiority over you?
This all kind of crazy. Every one of these posters have said what I have said. You pick apart every word she says to you and over analyze it. EVERYONE WHO POSTS TO YOU HAS SAID THIS. and with your recent expression of desire to get her out of your headspace, here I am calling attention to all the power you are giving it and how to help you get it out. for your own good. Because you asked. But instead, this is what you take from it?
maybe you have a problem with women. If they don't say what you want to hear and in the way you prefer to hear it, you think we are against you. Kind of the way you look at all your wife's interactions.
