holy cow you are saying way to much. You are pressuring her with the R talk. Don't get sucked into the R talk until she is saying how she wants to be committed, how she is so sorry, how the OM is gone and proving it to you.
The fact that she is mad that you aren't around as much, that you are out GAL, and not talking to her about "stuff" is good. She wants your attention it seems.
You need to validate when she does this, not rationalize. She feels a certain way about something - it doesn't have to make sense!
Quit shooting yourself in the foot and this may well turn around.
Yep, I'm a fool. lol
She's never 100% stated she wants to be committed to working on it. The closest is she's willing to 'try'. She's apologized several times, but again, it's hard to know if she's totally sincere. She's said repeatedly that OM is out of the picture. There's been NC. But, for some reason she felt the need to text him again asking him not to reveal the texts to me. She said she doesn't know if he even got it, cause she deleted his number. (how she 'remembered' it I have no idea).
It's hard not to get sucked into R talks, especially since she initiated it.
Wow, she just texted and said she was 10 minutes away from work and pulled over to throw up. Doesn't know if she's getting sick or something she ate this morning. My guess is stress and hangover.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
