Like, this past week was really good I think. We talked a lot, made dinner together twice, watched a movie together, etc. But when I went 'out' yesterday evening, that's when she got really mad, and we're kind of back to square one. That's my point about GALing. It seemed to have the opposite effect.
Remember. like you she is on her own roller-coaster ride of emotions too. Just because she got mad last night doesn't mean you are back to square one.
Thanks. Yes, it is a roller coaster. Last night she was bringing up things that made her mad 10 years ago. Stuff that I never even knew about. She took some blame for not always communicating her needs with me, but blamed me for not 'knowing' what she needed. It's just really weird talking with her. Like, I'm a very analytical person. That's what I do in my job. So it makes me mad that I can't process this stuff. That's probably the hardest part.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
