holy cow you are saying way to much. You are pressuring her with the R talk. Don't get sucked into the R talk until she is saying how she wants to be committed, how she is so sorry, how the OM is gone and proving it to you.
The fact that she is mad that you aren't around as much, that you are out GAL, and not talking to her about "stuff" is good. She wants your attention it seems.
You need to validate when she does this, not rationalize. She feels a certain way about something - it doesn't have to make sense!
Quit shooting yourself in the foot and this may well turn around.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
