LW, forgive me for the sidebar. I believe the point will benefit us all.
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In fact, that is what has been bothering me lately. EA in 2005 (headed towards PA). EA end of last year (less likely to be a PA due to distance). While I contributed to both situations, and I am determined not to repeat my mistakes a third time, I wonder if I will be living life constantly looking over my shoulder.
Steve, I feel you. Let me ask you. In a recent post in my thread, you said it didn't matter. Now if you caught your W in either an EA or PA, would you be done?
Well let me clarify the "it wouldn't matter". That was meant in context of before we moved to R and piecing. If you remember my sitch, my W was wayward. There was EA OM1. Then there was potential EA OM2. Then there was the dating profiles. Etc. After BD she continue EA#1. Then it ended a few weeks later and OM2 appeared. OM2's appearance didn't matter that time for what I NEEDED to do.Which was detach, 180s, GAL, be the best Steve85 I could be.
What I am alluding to here is the fact that I worry that if after R and piecing I slip back into my old normal and help create a new EA from her because she has a flaw in her nobleness of character. That's what I am worried about.
But since at this point an EA would be completely new sitch I'd have to process everything, weigh what I want, and move forward either with DBing (again) or saying 3 times the charm you're outta here. To be honest I am not sure what I would do at that point.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
