you are very hung up on everything she says to you which means you need detachment work. But I feel like she is texting you more b/c maybe you have calmed down a bit. I've certainly noticed a change in your tone.
You have a kid together so you will have to communicate with her for some time into the future. She may get excited, she may miss you, she may hate you. Who knows? And she won't tell you even if you ask. So leave it be and move forward.
Don't worry about the TRO, don't worry about her being fake. You've got a life to live.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
