Its not bothering me, its just doesnt make sense.

If things are so chipper, lift the TRO.

If i still need a TRO, stop being all chipper. we arent friends.
I respond politely, but i dont smear it with un needed friendliness.

There is a difference between being amicable and being friendly.

The overly nice attitude is so obviously fake.

if she wants to ooze fake friendliness, thats fine, its preferable to her being hateful and bitchy.
I just dont believe it to be sincere, but ill fake it alongside her if it means an easier going situation.

My point is that she didnt even need to message me about the lunchbox in the first place.
As i have said, she FINDS reasons to keep communicating.
If i had been in that same position, i would have just dropped the lunchbox off at school without asking her.
She left it behind, she knew it needed to go back with S3. So why even ask me?

you guys still seem to think im getting hung up on each word from her, im not. I am just posting to journal, and this is odd behavior because like i said, it didnt need to be discussed to begin with.

So, if i am such a rotten person that needs a TRO, what is the point of literally finding things to communicate with me about, and then again a 2nd time after i already provided and answer the first time.

It all smacks of Hoovering to me. If you arent familiar with the term, look it up.

Thanks for the input everyone.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds