You're still reacting to her messages. As I said before - get neutral. Feels like you almost want her to go ape$hit on you in texting so that you can reinforce what you believe her character is about. You seriously got to let this go. I mean we've been back and forth on this many times. Your focus is on her and her actions and words - you can't do $hit about whether she plays nice or mean. None of that should bother you. Let it go man.