Remember to stay busy at the house too. If you stay busy doing your own things then you will be less likely to "I do slip up and inquire about things from time to time (not R or MR, just life) but have cut that way back as well.".
The posters I see struggle the most are the ones that sit and stew in their own juices, over-analyze ever interaction, and just over think about their sitch and their WAS.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018