Remember, you are the lighthouse. You don't come to her, she comes to you. Read blackmac's threads. His W and him went long periods with NC.....guess what? She eventually missed him and came sniffing around. Your W likely will to, just give it time.
DO not reach out to her, just sit back and let her reach out to you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018