Today is 3 years since I met my H... we met online, he wrote me first, he called me and we arranged a date at a local cafe, I only had 30 minutes times as I was rushing to the work. I remember it was raining, I walked in and immediately found him attractive.. we had a chat , a laugh and the rest is the history. I am feeling a bit sentimental today but trying not to let it take over. We have a dinner party today- some friends are coming over. Nothing much has changed apart from the fact that he hasn't mentioned D and seems to be in a bit better mood. I am being kind, upbeat and not making any demands, and working on GAL and keeping myself busy. Taking it one day at a time.
I remember a few months before the wedding I asked an old lady who has been married for about 40 years- what's her secret of a long and happy marriage? And she replied- patience, lots and lots of patience. I really need to live off her advice right now.
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.
