okay. I have been away from home due to a business trip for a couple of days. The issue is that if I don't initiate any contact, my W won't either. It has been the case after BD. I now recall that she has complained before BD that she doesn't feel my presence will make a difference at home. Now should I initiate contact to ask about how she and S4 are doing? Or I should keep silent since she didn't initiate any contact?
Again, a 180 would be initiate contact, but I don't want to appear as pursuing again. Any comment is appreciated.
It's ok to ask about the kids, if it is truly about the kids. Don't use the kids as an avenue to pursue her. She will see right through it.
I think you want to pursue based off your statement "if I don't initiate contact, my W won't either". Well that's just life. But coming back and chasing this woman who said she didn't want you will only make her want you less. Do what works.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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