On a different note: My singer songwriter friend that I play music with is FB friends with my ex (she's known both of us for over 30 years). She never sees him post (I don't think he posts much) and he never comments on her posts. She's not happy with how he handled the divorce or the kids after the divorce but she doesn't unfriend him.
She noticed yesterday that he "liked" a picture of herself with Marshall Crenshaw at this concert we played at in Central Park last week. Which means he's been seeing all the fabulous posts, videos and pictures of me playing with her in front of 4-5,000 people and being with all these famous musicians onstage. (Marshall Crenshaw LOVED our rendition of Femme Fatale btw.)
I'll admit - it gives us both a little bit of a thrill to think of my ex looking at her page, wondering how I so outpaced him musically!!! (he can play about a dozen Neil Young songs he learned in college on acoustic guitar but he always thought HE was the musician in the family!) Living well IS the best revenge!!!!!!!!!
