Well CMM saw the pulmonologist today and apparently it was somewhat reassuring in that she expected that if it was a pneumonia secondary to a tumor they usually would be able to see the tumor on the CT scan and it didn't look like that. Still they will do a bronchoscopy next week to rule it out for sure and to see wtf is going on in there.
That's good because if new boyfriend developed lung cancer I'd feel obligated to care for him but that would be a lot to take on after only 3 months of dating (or less - I don't remember exactly when our first date was but he does.)
He's very romantic and quite besotted with me. Interestingly, I'm a physical touch person and so is he - but he said that before me, he would always roll over after and sleep on his side of the bed. With me he doesn't let go of me all night. I guess it says something about his marriage?
