The WAS will always have ups and downs, you try to be the constant.
In regards to her talking about "our future", believe nothing she says and only half of what she does. This could be a good sign or it could be anything up to outright deceit - maybe she wants you to think things are great while she plans something nefarious.
She may be watching you to see if these changes are real, don't slip.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.