WAW or WW? What should I do to save my MR.

[Wyoung]

okay. I have been away from home due to a business trip for a couple of days. The issue is that if I don't initiate any contact, my W won't either. It has been the case after BD. I now recall that she has complained before BD that she doesn't feel my presence will make a difference at home. Now should I initiate contact to ask about how she and S4 are doing? Or I should keep silent since she didn't initiate any contact?

Again, a 180 would be initiate contact, but I don't want to appear as pursuing again. Any comment is appreciated.