O - It will take a bit for her to get out of your headspace......I would just encourage you to not do anything to put her in your headspace. The hardest part about DBing is being patient and resisting your urges. You must have self-control and that comes easier to some than others.
I avoid deliberate things that will have her in my headspace, its when she just pops in there uninvited is where i run into trouble. Then i cant get her out of my headspace. I loved this woman so hard, i was so dedicated to my family, our marriage, our son and our goals. Oct 14th will be a YEAR since i found out about OM, and its been over a year already shes been seeing him. i just imagined i would have purged her from my system by now. To still be so attached is not only dumbfounding, but also infinitely frustrating. I wish i could just go have a hypnotist remove her from my mind. forever.
Even any time i am trying to GAL, she is there in the back of my mind. How the hell do you all completely push them out??
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
