Hi UK,

Those sound like healthy goals that you can control. From reading your posts, you are doing very well. Detaching is powerful stuff. Letting others own their anger and not letting it affect you is very "manly". I can let others be angry, IE my lady, or my kids, and still be there for them to express this anger.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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