I always want to call you Wild Bill for some reason (maybe b/c it's awesome?).
Anyways, you're chasing a wisp of wind, a meteor shooting across the sky. Except in this case, when you don't catch it, you're hurt and your situation is worse. You become weaker in your W's eyes.
Don't give the cheating spouse the satisfaction of knowing you are still on the hook. Instead, go make the best of your life and forget about her (AKA: detach, GAL). Every day that you reaffirm she's got you is another day she controls your happiness.
She cheated and is planning to move out, let her go. Those two things make you not want your partner, but you go harder after that? She needs to be kissing your butt, but she's flipped the roles on you and like a well trained dog you have come to heel.
She's planning another life without you, why snoop? Who cares? You're holding on to a memory. The R is over. Will she come back? Who knows? Act accordingly.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
