you're absolutely right. It's like in politics, where a lie gets repeated so much that eventually the line that defines right and wrong undergoes a shift. This is all for self serving reasons. My dad has told so many lies for so long that the truth seems a lie to him anymore.
Ballast, has your WW filed for D? She won't come around, but she wants you to respond to her calls, texts, and emails, right?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.