also what continues to interest me is her constant need to continually state to me that D'ing is absolutely the right thing for us to do. like if you know it, why the need to repeatedly say it.
Hi B,
Haven't posted here in a while. I think this need to constantly reaffirm what she is saying about D is her trying convince herself that it is the right thing to do. She may think if she says it often enough she will eventually to believe it. Who in their right mind would want to break up a family if there is no beating ,cheating or abuse? What you NEED to believe is that you are a good man with good qualities. Be the best ballast possible! Never forget your belief in God. Trust in Him. Blessings!


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18