Thanks, Steve.
lol, I think instinct is always easier when it's not your own sitch.

Understand that I haven't made up my mind yet. But It's been a very long time.

Trust? That's a luxury this MR can't afford.

During a recent fight. Yea, I participated and the good news it both recovered quickly. A lot of ugly things were said. I accused W of not doing the things necessary to restore my trust. Play a stupid game, get a stupid prize. W said that's because it looked like getting back together. I pointed out that not changing passwords or lying about them, didn't look like getting back together. Anyway, the fact is I can't trust what I see or hear.

I will say that venting here and getting the feedback from you all has made me take inventory of what is a trend in the MR and take pause.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.