You were fine up until the pursuit and pressure....but you already know that. Telling her you don't want to hear about her furniture for the new place was appropriate.
Pressure and pursuit will almost always result in her recoiling. You should have ended it at
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Me: No, it's not that it's not fair. I just seriously want to know why you think I would want to hear about that."
That was good, but you should have just walked away.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018