Will do, i avoided the conversation yesterday about it. I know this is only my true first week of NC and detachment but man it's hard. I did pockets of it before and she showed interest and I was quickly dragged back in. I'm pretty sure these next two weekends she will be away with OM and that makes it difficult for her to feel the detachment but I am planning to use the time working on me and being with my son. Wish me luck.

I have not been in the room when my W has come home the last two nights but my oldest has said that she is really stressing and is difficult to even speak to. i know she is working on not drinking and hopefully the sobriety has her mind thinking about what she has truly been doing. I know I am impatient but I keep telling myself it's a marathon.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019