Detachment isn't something you do as much as something you become. That is why GAL and staying busy is soooooo important. Not sure if I've stated this in your thread, but I have stated it in other threads, those that struggle the most wtih detachment are those that do a poor job a GAL. I asked another poster a couple of weeks ago, that struggles mightily with detachment despite his sitch being pretty old, what his GAL plans were that evening. His response was "sitting around being bored". And he wonders why he struggles?!?

Keep busy is such a key. When you are filling your time with other activities it becomes less easy to focus on your sitch and on your WAS.

We have a saying around here: fake it until you make it. Part of the "faking" it is to make sure you are constantly busy.


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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018