Did, Loves is right. I said that because you say out of one side of your mouth you want things to work with your W, then with the other that you are tired waiting and want to date. Even your response to Loves about "we both have been dating off and on for over a year" like it is some contest. "IF she is going to date then so am I!" Likely that kind of thinking is exactly why you are in your sitch.

Did I've spent a lot of time in this thread trying to get you to see that you have a lot to work on. I've tried to be gentle in that. However, I feel that bluntness is more appropriate at this point. You need IC. You need inner reflection to figure out some things about yourself. Self awareness is one of the keys to life. No who you are or what you do for a living, self awareness is a big key to healthy. happy living. It does no one any good to stick your head and the sand and pretend like everyone else has the problem

Did, I also get the impression from your posting that you are a native of the USA. It is subtle but some of the way you word things make me think that you may be a first generation immigrant. Sometimes understanding a person backgrounds can help provide context for some of their feelings and attitudes. Would you mind sharing your heritage with us?

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018