I think Steve said that bc whenever you get really mad you start saying you are gonna by to date other people. I have never once thought it would be a good idea for you to date. But now you say that you ha e both dated on and off for a year. Ok then, get divorced. It's pretty simple.
And you mentioned what sandi says only when it validates what you want, but not the majority of what she said which was to leave her be and gal and work on yourself. But you only mention that she said your wife wasn't interested in you sexually. That is twisting her words to fit what you want.
I have always said that I think you and your wife have a chance. After this, idk. And not bc of her. You seem to be motivated by what it right in front of you.
I don't wanna sound harsh but I don't think I'll be commenting on this thread much anymore. Seems silly for me to put effort into at this point.
