Spending time today with the kids and staying busy helped me a lot with the resentment anger and depression I am going thru. Trying to grow and change my own short comings one day at a time. The journey of a 1000 miles starts with a single step and I have begun my quest. Praying my positive changes will show my W I can change, but I am doing this for myself and children first and all else second but it is so difficult right now. Many other input on how I can detrach besides GAL