She seems very committed in her new feelings and life style.
It is a mask on her side and a massive assumption on your side. Refrain from mind reading.
Originally Posted by LANE777
I'm 3 months since separation. If I can get another 2 to 3 months like the last 2 days...I will be golden..I hope I don't crash, it could happen. Like up coming hollidays. But i will weather the storm.
Well done. The lows will come, it is natural. Do not fear it. You will emerge victorious.
Originally Posted by LANE777
How long do you think until she starts sniffing?
The changes are for YOU and not for HER. You have to be GENUINE. A woman can detect desperation and fake intentions from a mile away.
And you also probably know the proverb: A watched kettle never boils.
The fact of the matter is you have to forgo the anxiety and expectations. It is not a play book, where it says if you do this, this will happen.
And the last thought. It really is a marathon, not a sprint. If your W will decide to recommit to the marriage it will likely be months if not years.
