Ovr, I have always been confused by the call ignoring that happens on various sitches here. Wouldn’t true detachment be that you just return the courtesy call as if you would for any other person and let it be casual? If you are angry then let it go to VM, if she doesn’t call repeatedly or use some other form of contact it cannot be urgent right ? If a neighbor called you how would you react? Don’t make it a priority at the same time may be don’t ignore as if she doesn’t exist. We all need to achieve apathy not harbor hate which is hard. Hate is but an extreme end emotion of the love you felt before, detachment is not hate in my opinion, it is more like believing they don’t exist and can’t affect you anymore
