It is a long process and that mostly and unfortunately is because it takes that long for the LBS to wake the F up!
That is the paradox...the LBS has al the control and doesn't even know it.
Look Im telling you this based on my on mistakes and lessons learned the hard way! I wish someone could've gotten through to me sooner and I would've saved a lot of heart ache for me, my kids, and my ex .
Me: 39 W: 38 S: 15 D: 12 D: 6 BD 8/15 NEED SPACE S 2/16 Divorced 4/17 and loving it, waw came back 12/17.....I declined