One additional thing. And this was a detail I forgot to mention last week, but it does bear saying:
When I was preparing for our camping trip, I needed to take my futon mattress (because I'm not a man and can't sleep on the ground) with me. W entered the room and I paused a little to take the mattress off. W asked if she should leave. I said yes. Why?
Because there were three self-help books I am reading (not DB/DR). One of the books was on how to handle an affair.
Here is the twist...she knows those books are there. Why? Because she changed my bed sheets last week. And in order for her to remove my old bed sheet, she had to actually lift the mattress to unzip the old cover. She had to have seen the books. She does know what I am perceiving as far as she goes. And I'm not sure if it's coincidence or not, but her behaviors have become more pronounced (in my favor) since.
Again, making a mountain out of a molehill, but figured I should provide that detail to you.
EDIT: Saw your response. And I'm still working on the Detachment process. She doesn't know my feelings. She can assume. But she does not KNOW. From my understanding, she can obsess what I'm doing all she wants. AFAIK, I'm GAL and detaching. It's only been 24 days. This is a months long process.
