Thanks David. I’m keeping up with your sitch. So today, W turn to get kids ready for summer camp. They needed to be there by 8am. I got up, got ready for work and she was still asleep on the sofa. Clearly going to be very late. I just left her tonit where as before I might have woken her and even helped with the kids. No contact all day which seems the norm now. Got home later to collect kids and take them to the park. W been out shopping at Victoria Sectet, leaving the bag in the kitchen for me to see. So what. Got back, W offers to help with preparing kids dinner. No thank you. I play with kids, W frantically messaging on her phone. Kids go to bed. I go into our old matrimonial bedroom to finish decorating for my D and W is in the bed asleep at 845pm. Very odd. She awoke and began to try and start a fight, I need to communicate better blah blah. I almost bit, but just walked off.
With the upcoming funeral I have been forced to tell a few more of my extended family about the situation as W will not be attending. Also heard W had deleted all my family from FB. Perhaps me too. Who knows? Who cares? Keep detaching. Began looking at some houses today in readiness for the impending house sale. Found a lovely place in a very nice street which my kids would love. Booked a camping trip for the kids and I before they go back to school. Organised a drinks night with an old friend. Enquiries about drum lessons, something I’ve always wanted to do.
