Steve, the more I think about this, honestly you are absolutely right. These rumors, lies, half truths, etc is stupid high school stuff.

I can see why she is angry at them, and i can see that they embellished the truth or stories to me. None of that really matters now, and that was another reason I said what I did to her last night. W has always put a lot of weight into other peoples opinions. It would always drive me crazy, cause I could really care less about what other people have to say (no offense to anyone here. lol).

Onto other things, S had school orientation tomorrow. W and I both went last year. She said she's going to take him, and I don't have to go if I don't want to. It is boring as all hell. I forgot all about it, and made plans to go to dinner with a friend. Not sure what I should do, or if it even matters?

Also, and most importantly, we have tentative plans to sit and really discuss our future this weekend. I know exactly what I'd like to say, but everything here says to just listen, validate, etc. I'm not looking forward to it.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14