NGS isn't about being too nice. It is about using niceness to try to get your way. To manipulate people. "If I am nice to her then she will have sex with me" types of things. I highly suggest reading the book.
Just curious......how do you know what these friends told you was not true?
Ha, maybe i should read it. Again i guess my point of the comment was to tell her im not putting full weight into the rumor mill.
Our 'friends' knew her and this dork were starting to talk/text. They never told me though. W told me, and our friends told her that shes just liking the attention from OM. But when it all blew up, they told me she 100% pursued him, and he had nothing to do w it. So, how could she be enjoying attention, if OM wasnt giving her any?
Friends are mad now cause shes never apologized to them. I know for a fact (yes, checked phone) that W did text them all an apology, and took responsibility for her part. She told them shes mad because they inflated and bent the truth. Friend replied that they had to in order to protect their employee.
Thats what i know for sure. There are many other discrepancies, but idk whos telling the truth.
Again, not that it matters in the grand scheme. W is at fault. But friends really did a number on her, and me
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
