So regarding perceptions...

My best friend, who has a great relationship with her husband was telling me this story about how her husband spilled something on himself got annoyed and unfairly blamed it on her. She said she just couldnt stop laughing at the spill factor. She said he was annoyed for a bit. And that he gets like that. Angry over stupid things. And she usually just laughs. (My friend is like that. She laughs at everyone and everything. And her and i have laughed over my situation and my divorce for a few years now)

I told her how if that was NG, i would have been ready to break up and would have immediatly ran to discuss the incident on my forums.

So i am not sure with relationships....is it my perceptive?. My own proclivity to negativity and unhappiness and fault finding that will keep me like that article author?

Or is the negativity there to serve as a internal warning system. There to protect me and my son? I know someone that was prescribed meds for post partum anxiety. She said she actually left her baby alone in a play area. And when her husband saw that, they realized those meds were not good to take. Once again, im not aure what the reality is.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer