So here's my take, and this is basic attraction 101. She cheats and the relationship is on the rocks. Regardless of what happened before, she chose this. Did she not vow for better or for worse? She suggests you date too and this is to make her feel better about her dating. Then somehow she gets you out of the house because things are on the rocks. Well yea, cheating seems to have that effect. I'd move back in and possibly tell her to get out You're proud of your home, why should you leave it?

She's not being mean to your face, but her actions are certainly mean and disrespectful. Your daughter gets part time parents as a result. Her knowing you deserve a "second chance at love" doesn't mean she is going to give it to you. And until she does, and that's a big if, you don't need to plan around her.

I'd go back to my place full time and tell her why. I'd tell her that a cheater and adulterer shouldn't get to wreck the home and still get the run of the place. I'd say that one time, as calmly as possible, and not get drawn into arguments further down the road.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.