NGS isn't about being too nice. It is about using niceness to try to get your way. To manipulate people. "If I am nice to her then she will have sex with me" types of things. I highly suggest reading the book.

Just curious......how do you know what these friends told you was not true?

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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018