***DISCLAIMER*** not something I am going to act on!!

I have been experiencing odd resurgences is sexual thoughts of EX the past few days.
She has shown up in dreams, and un-asked for in sexual thoughts when awake also.

I know if we were to EVER re-engage sexually, it would give her the opportunity to burst into my emotions like the Kool-Aid Man, so it wont be happening, but for a long time my sexual attention was diverted elsewhere as I tried to move on from EXWIFE.

Now i have the fresh surge of desire and thoughts of her in that manner.
Has anyone else experienced this?
Any advice on how to cope with it or make it go away?

I have VERY fond memories of out times together sexually, but id rather just not think of her, as enjoyable as the memories and/or fantasies can be, they are bittersweet and she shouldnt be in my headspace.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds