Not seeing why this thing with the friends matters? No matter who inflated what to protect whom, your W willing engaged in this EA with OM. Period. End of story.

She has plenty of blame to shoulder for that. At any point she could have said "This is wrong, I am married, and I am committed to my H in all of his imperfections." DO NOT ALLOW THIS TO ABSOLVE HER OF ANY BLAME.

yes, what you said was terrible thing to say. Have we discussed NGS? Do you know what that is? Have you heard of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy.

T, if you think you can nice her back you will be sorely mistaken. The key to getting her back is to reattract her.And you do that by earning her respect....not by nice guying her back.

Last edited by Steve85; 08/22/18 12:36 PM.
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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018