just seeing this now - ive been in full blown move mode. glad the tour went well and your friend is doing so well post-op. re CMM - praying that theres nothing wrong w his lung. yes bizarre story; agreed ostrich tendency.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
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