Divorce and Acceptance part 3

[Pax_luv]

One, Ha, and Bru-
Thank you for taking the time to chime in on this. I really appreciate your perspectives.

I think you are all correct in that this is all him trying to control the situation still. I think my stress and emotion tied to all this stems from the fact that I could personally never lie about this sort of thing, and in a court/legal capacity. Sometimes I think the court will take his lies as truth because it takes someone really ballsy to falsify this info. Then again, I guess people do it all the time. I just don’t have it in me so it’s hard for me to brush it off.

I’ve remained consistent in my approach- meaning I’m just fighting for what’s fair. The judge has seemed pretty level headed with all our issues to date. The one thing that did shock the heck out of me and both my lawyer and his lawyer was bifurcating the marriage without the financials squared away. It blew all of us away.

So hopefully she will see this for what it is at our next appearance. Ugh it’s just so stressful.

Thanks again for your perspectives. I appreciate it.