You can also text and ask her "What's up?". Leave it at that. If she calls, don't answer. If you are tempted to answer, text her back instead and say "Can't talk. Busy." I'm learning if you convey GAL to S, all the better. I'm not saying fake GAL. I am saying to make it seem like you are GAL to the max and YDGAF (you) unless it's about your kids.