W just texted me saying at this point there isn’t a conversation to be had. Ticked me off that she doesn’t have the decency to even talk. Majority of family and friends say to just end it since I have been faithful and obedient now for 8 months. My brother is telling me to stay the course to be long suffering like Christ and to not give up.
Really confused, as when I got that text my initial thought was screw this person, and I’m done with being disrespected. I don’t even know who she is anymore. Who I knew is gone, and I’m not sure if she will ever be back. She has been enabled and babies her whole life, and I don’t see how this will change considering she is back living at home with mommy and daddy. I don’t believe she had an affair while with me, but I don’t doubt she is actively on the market inher home state since she is a codependent, low self esteem woman.
Do I go ahead and sign the simple divorce papers and have a clean break, or do I continue to fight for my marriage with the potential of her suing me and coming after my accumulated assets from the 11 months she was living with me in my marriage is the question. Being in sales, I could owe her $30-40k considering I had a good year last year.
Most of me wants a clean break so I can move on, but my faith is what’s holding me back. I want my hands to be clean at the end of the day, but in answer to God, and the easier path doesn’t seem like the right path.
Steve, really looking for your advice as I look up to you and your sitch and faith.
