Hello everyone ..Vapo and Steve...thanks for the boost today!! It really helped me out. Getting out and being awesome went well today. I look forward to more days like this. Even if the W isn't around to see it, I still think its really helping me out a lot so when the day comes I won't know any better.
I have had me kids for over a week now...W texted and said her work schedule is crazy and asked if I could keep them until Friday morn. I didn't see the text for about 10 to 15 min so she called to discuss..lol..I wasn't holding back on the text on purpose..I was just busy with my awesomeness. I basically said that would be just fine to leave the kids.. and moved on. I was a little proud of myself. She may or may not sense that things are going just fine over here. Doesn't matter right now Right??
So I went and bought some clothes, nothing special just some shirts and shorts that look nice. I plan on wearing them when she picks kids up on Friday and be ready to be heading out at the same time..lol. Should be fun...Im actually going to call some friends and see if they want to do something. GAL is starting to show some improvements. I figure if I can get to the point of self reliance and being "Super Dad"as Vapo puts it...someday it won't matter what woman is in my life.
The stories you leave for me here on my thread and the comments you leave on other threads basically say the samething over and over, to GAL like crazy!! Some folks wait too long.
I need to check into the book No More Mr Nice Guy.
Today I started my awesomeness!! A$$ is in 2nd gear..working for 3rd.
Thanks again for sharing your stories and sending words of confidence my way..I owe you Big!
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15